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March 10, 2025March 10, 2025

Want to Meet Someone Special? Here’s Why Putting Your Phone Down Could Change Your Love Life

You know the feeling. You’re waiting for a friend, sitting alone at a coffee shop, or passing time in a new part of town. Instead of being present, you stare at your phone feeling awkward and alone. But what if those quiet moments were actually golden opportunities for love and connection? If you’re single and […]

February 23, 2025February 24, 2025

This is Why Dating Feels Draining (And Here’s What to Do Instead): Part 2 of 2

Are you a single woman ready to give up on love? Keep reading. (This is Part 2 of a 2-Part series. Read the first half here.) So you’re in a dating rut—stuck, drained, and unable to see any possibility. You’re convinced that dating is just not working for you. Maybe you believe all the good […]

February 23, 2025March 8, 2025

This is Why Dating Feels Draining (And Here’s What to Do Instead): Part 1 of 2

Are you a single woman ready to give up on love? Start here. If dating feels like an endless cycle of hope, disappointment, repeat—chances are, you’re stuck in the spiral of dating burnout. Every bad experience chips away at your energy, making you want to shut down, give up, and swear off love altogether. Sound […]

December 13, 2024December 13, 2024

13 Practical Ways to Feel Sexier and More Embodied

Dating, building a career, raising a family, going to school, launching a business—modern women juggle it all. So where’s the time to feel sexy? And why does it matter? If you’re reading this in your sweats and messy bun, it might be hard to picture yourself as a sex bomb. Here’s the thing though: Feeling […]

June 4, 2024June 19, 2024

A Tantric Approach to Coaching: The Fast Track to Deeper Self-Love, Sexuality, and Empowerment

Whether you’re looking to find true love, expand your empowerment, or dig deeper into your sexuality, a Tantric approach to coaching adds a layer of discovery and transcendence while “doing the work.” If you’re reading this, you’ve heard the term Tantra or some rendition of what it means. You’re probably also familiar with coaching (if […]

April 14, 2023June 4, 2024

How to Use Your Felt Sense to Radically Transform Your Sex, Love and Relationships

…plus self-love, inner power and so much more. Here’s what you need to know right now. If you’ve ever felt butterflies in your stomach before going out on a hot date; experienced the sensation of your heart plummeting during a breakup conversation or know what it’s like to notice a contraction in your chest or […]